The letter, on the occasion of International Men's week, coincides with the week in which Tendulkar retired from cricket six years ago. The personal and emotional note, rewinds to 16th November 2013 when the God of cricket let his tears flow in front of the world, as he walked off the pitch after his final Test match.
Saying that's it's okay for men to cry, and wishing them the courage to break the stereotypes that say otherwise, the 46-year-old wrote, "There's no shame in showing your tears. So why hide a part of you that actually makes you stronger? Why hide your tears? It takes a lot of courage to show your pain and your vulnerability. But just as sure as the morning, you'll emerge from it tougher and better. So I encourage you to move past these stereotypes and notions of what men can or cannot do. Whoever you are, wherever you are, I wish you this courage."
He then address the stereotype and pressure that society puts on men, saying, "But sure enough, you'll hold back the tears and pretend to be tough. Because that's what men do. Because that's what we are brought up to believe - that men are not supposed to cry. That crying makes a man weak.
"I grew up believing this. And the reason I'm writing to you today, is because I realized that I was wrong. My struggles and my pain made me who I am, shaping me into a better man."
He goes on to write about his own experience, and the emotions that he felt when he retired, writing, "16/11/2013. I still remember that day on the field. I had thought about it for a long time but nothing could prepare me for that last walk back to the pavilion. With each step it started sinking in. I felt a lump in my throat, the fear of it all ending.
"There was so much going through my head in that moment. I just couldn't keep it in. And I didn't fight it. I let go in front of the world, and surprisingly, I felt a certain peace. I felt stronger for putting myself out there and grateful for everything that I had received. I realized I was man enough," he added.
Concluding, the legend said, "There's no shame in showing your tears. So why hide a part of you that actually makes you stronger? Why hide your tears? It takes a lot of courage to show your pain and your vulnerability. But just as sure as the morning, you'll emerge from it tougher and better. So I encourage you to move past these stereotypes and notions of what men can or cannot do. Whoever you are, wherever you are, I wish you this courage."
Beyond Cricket: Meet Sachin Tendulkar, The Entrepreneur
The Milestone Man
The God of cricket, Master Blaster for millions of people worldwide, Sachin Tendulkar is an icon. He has to his credit 18,426 runs in One-Day Inetrnational cricket and 15,921 runs in Test cricket. There is so much more to the legend other than just his fantastic on-field performance. Never one to lose sight of his goal, Tendulkar has been able to establish himself as a coveted brand and an entrepreneur. Considering Tendulkar’s illustrious career and multiple endorsements, his estimated net worth is around Rs 118 crores.
As the sporting legend turns a year older, here's a look at his entrepreneurial achievements.
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1 Comment on this Story
Dinesh Hassija372 days ago
Absolutely. Even there may not be shame in asking for work.