Tips on how to handle dating a hot girl!
You're a decent looking fellow, but your girl is simply drop dead gorgeous. Can you handle dating her and all the attention she gets? Here's a guide to help you.
Other men giving her attention can get tiring — very tiring, very fast. But instead of cursing your luck and sulking every time someone glances at her, appreciate what you've got. You're the envy of other men even though it may not feel so at the time. However, just because other men may envy you, you do not have bragging rights — your girl is not a trophy. Keep it classy, always.
Let her be herself
Attractive women mostly know the effect they have on men and your girl is no stranger to the attention. She got it before you arrived on the scene and will continue to get it if and when you are out of the picture. So really, please do not ask her to tone down her behaviour, dressing or charm, because the only thing she will turn down is you. Let her be, she can handle the situation.
Keep paying attention
Women love flattery and attention. Whether it's for her looks, intellect, job or home life, she's going to dig the compliments. If she's getting it from other men, let her enjoy it so long as it doesn't go over the top. But just because she likes the attention from other people, doesn't mean she likes yours any less. Stay in the game and keep being attentive to her.
She's hot, but there's more
Yeah, she knows she's hot. But there is so much more to her than just her looks. So make it a point to compliment her on her other assets. The more creative and specific the compliment, the more she's going to realise why she picked you instead of the other men who were vying for her.
Discuss the issue
If the flirting, attention and compliments are getting too much to handle, then have a frank discussion with your lady. Remember, it's not her fault that she gets hit on, so don't accuse her. Be open about what makes you uncomfortable and she's a lot more likely to reassure you.